http://www.titscalendar.com/christy-marks Tue, 27 Sep 2011 08:32:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 http://www.titscalendar.com/christy-marks/comment-page-1#comment-22 kgt Fri, 29 Apr 2011 17:41:26 +0000 http://www.titscalendar.com/?p=149#comment-22 So when in the situation we will be subjected to the impact of social pressure is not available, our response should be biphasic. As soon as we feel the rising tide of emotional arousal, we should read it as a signal that we cool down a bit, because the rush and fever are not good advisors in situations of social influence - to take a rational decision requires solitude and reflection. Once you regain a bit of peace, time for step two, the query yourself, why we want what is the subject of the decision. If you mainly because I want it to be the owner, is the strength of our desire to help us an idea of ​​how high the price we are still willing to pay. But if the answer is that our desire comes primarily from a desire to use something (wearable, in the event of clothing, or riding in a car accident), then we must recall that the volume of use for a thing not dependent on the degree of unavailability; that chocolates are not enough, even through it does not taste better. So when in the situation we will be subjected to the impact of social pressure is not available, our response should be biphasic. As soon as we feel the rising tide of emotional arousal, we should read it as a signal that we cool down a bit, because the rush and fever are not good advisors in situations of social influence – to take a rational decision requires solitude and reflection. Once you regain a bit of peace, time for step two, the query yourself, why we want what is the subject of the decision. If you mainly because I want it to be the owner, is the strength of our desire to help us an idea of ​​how high the price we are still willing to pay. But if the answer is that our desire comes primarily from a desire to use something (wearable, in the event of clothing, or riding in a car accident), then we must recall that the volume of use for a thing not dependent on the degree of unavailability; that chocolates are not enough, even through it does not taste better.

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